2010-02-26

Feb 26

Mom was pretty upset with the way Dad was tonight, so she's staying at my house.
I truly believe it was the meds that made him so wonky.
When Doc Ukreet was there the other day, he said their main focus was to get him pain free, and stronger so he can go home.
I don;t know about you guys.. but if that were me I'd want to be home.
The nurse at Kennedy said patients do better at home.. their own bed, or chair, own food, etc...
and you're not being constantly reminded that you're sick.
I know it's scary to think of him coming home, but keep in mind he'll have a nurse come and check him..
The social worker said medicare will only pay for 2 or 3 or 3 or 4 days of nurses per week.. but he's got Aetna, too.. they should pick up a day or two, right?
Wan.. you're good at getting thru that kind of bullshit.. lets see if we can get a nurse paid for 7 days a week.
He's got no heart monitor on now, no IV, it's just the PT which they'll also come to the house.. and of course the medical care that is provided there.
I'd like to see him come home before the end of the normal 3 week stay. maybe around the 12th? The poor man has been in a hospital for 3 weeks...

2 comments:

  1. Wen, I do agree, but let's not make a decision out of empathy. I feel awful that he's there, but he needs to get stronger to take on the chemo...and chemo is the only thing that's gonna make him survive the cancer. I was actually thinking around the 12th too, but that is 3 weeks, right? I saw my friend Lisa last night and she said she would be brutally honest with me about anything. Let me call her and ask her what she would do with her own Dad in this situation. I'm going over there this morning.

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  2. btw...Lisa has a lot of experience with this and she's good friends with Dad's Doctor, Dr. Conti, so between the two of them they'll be able to give us their opinion.

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